True empowerment for women comes from the depth at which they can hold and embody their sensuality - in a mature, grounded and expanded way.
In this Iceland initiation, you will discover and stretch how much goodness and pleasure you can really let yourself receive, and stay present with.
This journey will ask you to face your edges around beauty, worth, sensuality, power and desire - and invite you to move through them.
You can do all of the trauma work and inner work that you do - but the true high witch sorcery that makes it all worth it in the end?
Is stretching beyond your upper limit for pleasure.
How much pleasure can you take?
Come to Iceland with us, and find out.
“Remind yourself that the day you were born, your body was a cause for celebration, for love without condition, and that’s just as true today as it was then.”
Emily Nagasaki, Come as You Are
Our bodies are sacred. Our sensuality is our power.
And yet, how often do we have spaces to truly embrace both of these truths?
How often are we held in safe, consensual, trauma-informed spaces where we can push our pleasure edges, surrender, and raise the limit of what we can receive?
The answer: Not often enough.
This retreat is your opportunity to remember what’s always been true.
Pleasure is your birthright.
Ok But… Why…. Iceland?
This retreat was birthed at a pub in Iceland as best friends bonded and giggled over ginger ale and whiskey, dreaming up our next life and business creative ideas and expansions (all of which have since come true!) after epic Tantric Massages were our bodies were taken to cosmic ecstasy and orgasmic bliss for hours and hours.
After the pub, we got dressed up and went out to a Michelin star restaurant for endless food orgasms, eating course after course of mind-blowing local cuisine and licking whipped cream off our bodies while our taste buds begged for mercy and gorgeous men served our every whim and desire.
We stumbled out of the restaurant and walked up the road to find the northern lights dancing over the peaks of the famous Hallgrimskirkja church. As we stood in awe and anointed the church doors with our pussy juice, we promised each other…
We are coming back here and leading a group of amazing women into the intiation of their lives.
Our cups runneth over had a very new and literal meaning as Icelandic Viking Sky Daddy God dominated our pleasure and shattered everything we thought we knew about surrender and receiving.
Iceland is dominant.
Iceland is Wild.
Iceland will bring you to your knees in sensuousness.
Iceland is raw and unhinged.
Iceland is grounded in Viking Masculine Energy.
So the real question is not why Iceland? It’s are you actually ready to experience this level of pleasure domination…
Your Pleasure Guides
Jen Underwood
Jen is a Emotional Wellness and Trauma Resolution coach who specializes in bringing out people’s internal leadership and releasing them from the shackles that bind them and keep them from chasing what they truly desire in life, business, and love. She combines a decade of formal clinical training in psychology, somatic embodiment training, teaching, and experience creating, running, and scaling three successful businesses to create holistic leadership, relationship, and emotional resilience trainings that clients from around the world return to, again and again.
She’s been referred to as The Emotional Dominatrix, which accurately captures how she approaches her work with clients, taking the four standard dominatrix archetypes of Authoritarian, Seductress, Mother, and Queen and weaving them together to create a safe, loving, and firmly held space to push clients past the confines of their mind and into the spaces they most fear and long to go. There is nothing she loves more than to take people from a place where they feel exhausted, tight, controlled, scared, small, afraid to reach for their dreams, to a place where they are relaxed, full of pleasure, full of possibility, total liquid gold energy, moving through the world noticing all of the ways that the universe is conspiring to help them.
Jen’s writing has been featured in The Washington Post, The Elephant Journal, and on several Medium publications. She is currently writing on her new Substack, Un-Traumatized, and gearing up for the launch of a new podcast A Healthy Dose of Trauma featuring conversations with her teenage daughter and her first book, Trauma Makes You Interesting (which was titled during her first trip to Iceland).
She lives in Denver, Colorado with her teenage daughter and spends her days writing, teaching, and developing her own work and her nights exploring the culinary delights of the city or curling up in her dream home indulging in her favorite hobbies of making sourdough, reading fantasy books, and interior decorating.
Stephanie Rae
Stephanie is a world renowned and sought after Tantric Sex and Sensual Embodiment Coach. She is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, Licensed Breathwork Facilitator, and Somatic Psychedelic Integration Coach. She leads Tantra, adventure, priestess, and plant medicine retreats around the world for Women in locations such as Egypt, Peru, Bali, Thailand, Everest Base Camp, and South Africa.
Stephanie is the CEO of the global somatic based program Trauma to Tantra® which brings women through an experiential process of finding safety in the body, uncovering their sensuousness, living daily in their embodied pleasure, and learning to surrender into the depths of their cosmic orgasm, and co-founded a global non-profit “What is the Power of We?” to build a coalition and community worldwide against gender-based violence on and off mountains. She is currently training to do the 7 Summits, climb the highest mountain on each continent, to raise awareness. Stephanie also is a Co-Founder of My Soul Warrior bringing mental skills and emotional mastery to executives and collegiate sports teams.
In her spare time, she is basking in the pleasure of daily life as a soccer mom, going to pilates and hot yoga, baking, reading endless erotic fantasy books, dancing, writing her New York Times Best Selling Novel, and watching the sun rise in Chicago where she currently lives.
Are you ready to have your pleasure blocks busted apart?
The Itinerary
September 19th, 2025
Day 1; The Soft Landing
You’ll fly out on September 18th, and arrive in the early morning hours in Reykjavik to meet up with our whole group. Upon arrival, you’ll be whisked off to soak in a stunning lagoon (Skyla or Blue), to land and adjust from the jet lag in the most pleasurable way possible.
Connect with yourself, nature and the group
Transition with ease out of day to day life into preparation for the pleasure initiation
We’ll conclude with back in Reykjavik with an opening circle and facilitated embodiment practices to start to open you up to pleasure and prepare you for your journey in the next four days together, then say goodnight and send you out into the city with recommendations for dinner spots (or wave you back to your room for delicious room service and sleep).
September 20th-22nd
Days 2 - 4; Peak Pleasure
Over the next three days, you’ll rotate through planned facilitated experiences in small groups to meet and move through your ultimate pleasure edges, with additional meals and facilitated pleasure practices and integration circles led by both Jen & Stephanie together as a large group as well as time on your own to explore and integrate.
Your phases of Peak Pleasure:
Grounded Wildness
Sensual Play
Endless Orgasm
The Finale: A Tantric Massage and an Orgasmic 10+ Course Michelin Star Dinner w/ Wine or NA Drink Pairings, All Included
September 23rd
Day 5; Closing & Aftercare
We will all close together as a large group, with final practices and aftercare protocols
Create Your Declaration of Desire; how much pleasure, goodness and beauty will you create and allow for yourself to receive going forwards?
Learn more about aftercare, and become your own best lover setting up plans to care for yourself in the weeks to come
Transportation back to the airport included, if you are departing this day.
Two weeks before the retreat and two weeks after, you’ll be invited onto a Zoom call as a group to meet everyone before we arrive and to close the container together after returning home.
Included in your retreat fees is all transportation, lagoon fees, three meals including our Michelin dinner experience, your tantric massage, and any additional fees that might come from exploring local sights during group activities.
The 3 Stages of Leaning Into Your Pleasure Edges
Grounded Wildness
Spend a day in the somatic experience of the wild beauty of Iceland, chasing waterfalls, tasting the freshest of local cuisine at a one-of-a-kind farm to table restaurant, and standing in witness of the power of the elements in this truly embodied, experiential day.
Sensuous Play
Spend a day in downtown Reykjavik exploring the city in sensual play. Highlights and possibilities include a penis museum, a chocolate factory, a sex toy shop, the local Viking Sky Daddy church, additional spa time, delicious local food, and untold surprise adventures.
Endless Orgasm
Spend a day pushing all your pleasure edges with a luxurious three hour tantric massage, where you will have a chance to practice setting boundaries, receiving touch, and surrendering to find the depths of your pleasure and the empowerment of your turn on.
We agree completely with Grace Williams when she said…
"You are enough to drive a saint to madness or a king to his knees."
But the real question is, do you know that in your bones?
Your energy does more than turn heads - it can shift and change the entire world around you, and revolutionize your relationships and your business. This retreat is more than just a “good time” though it will certainly be that! This retreat is more than just a “good time” though it will certainly be that! This experience will become your new embodied reality of you being THAT woman who walks into the room, turns every head and people think … Who is SHE? Your energy is the sexiest accessory you can wear. Let us adorn you in Iceland.
What Else Do I Need to Know?
Dates: September 19th - 23rd 2025
Location: Reykjavik, Iceland
Included: Pleasure experiences, integration & coaching, transportation upon
arrival until completion, three meals as a group including the ultimate Michelin star meal with paired wines or non-alcoholic options, tantric massage and additional pleasure surprises, pre- and post- retreat group calls.
Not Included: Accommodations, flights, travel insurance, additional meals and spending money.
We invite everyone to stay at the same hotel, and are happy to facilitate room shares.
Our Hotel
Thingholt by Center Hotels
****
A Four Star Boutique Hotel in the center of the city, this gorgeous property features a sexy hotel bar and restaurant, a drool-worthy spa, free breakfast daily, and is walkable to all note-worthy bars, restaurants, museums, and attractions in Reykjavik.
There are 52 gorgeous rooms, with options for rooms with two twin beds to share with another participant or single rooms that range from economy to epic bathtub suite.
Current prices range from $150/night to $275/night for single occupancy - a great DEAL in Iceland. You are also welcome to stay in another hotel or airbnb if you so desire.
Ready to Expand Beyond Your Wildest Dreams?
Peak Pleasure Investment
Are you ready to have your pleasure ceiling pushed higher, and higher, and even higher?
Pay in Full
$5,500
5 Payments
$1,125
10 Payments
$600
SPECIAL PAY IN FULL BONUS, WITH KLARNA OR AFTERPAY AVAILABLE AT CHECKOUT
Choose to Pay in Full & Receive TWO BONUS 1:1 COACHING CALLS to be used in the 2 months before & after the retreat for additional expansion and integration (one with Stephanie and one with Jen)
A BONUS VALUED AT $2,000
Spots are limited, and people have actually been begging us to do this retreat for years. this retreat will sell out.
GRAB YOUR SPOT NOW IN THE ULTIMATE PLEASURE INITIATION, OR HIT THE BUTTON BELOW TO EMAIL WITH QUESTIONS
Additional Photos to Drool Over…
