Facilitate the F*ck Out of It!Learn to expertly set and steer containers that begin, progress & end exactly how you want, and solve for rupture before it ever happens.
You know you are here for a purpose, and you strive everyday to lead your communities with heart.
Whether it’s private clients, group programs, or your team supporting you behind the scenes - you’ve created beautiful containers to hold, teach and support them, and your business is growing.
You want to give your communities experiences they will never forget.
You want to have your own memorable experiences with them, too - for the right reasons.
You want to leave each container feeling - “I nailed that” - because the group got everything out of it that you desired for them and more, and you crafted it with clarity and intention from start to finish.
Great experiences always begin with great facilitation.
Great facilitation is about standing in your personal Emotional Mastery & Leadership, and crafting a space that invites and supports the individuals in the container to stand in theirs.
Great facilitation is about creating the emotional arc of the container, seeing as many issues as possible ahead of time, and then subtly creating supportive ways to manage for those problems and create the exact experience you want people to have.
That’s what’s possible when you
Facilitate the F*ck Out of It.
It’s About Thinking Ahead…
The reason I created this course is because too many times, I’ve witnessed rupture and messy repair in a container, or disappointment in how it went - when it could’ve been solved for from the beginning.
Sometimes things seem to go so smoothly, and everything works perfectly.
Other times… not so much. People get upset, they don’t get along, they don’t engage as much as you desire, things feel clunky, and you might be left wondering…
What just happened?
Why did that feel so hard?
The answer lies in these questions:
Do you know how to create a container that will be exactly what you desire, each and every time, regardless of who joins?
Do you know how to set and hold the energy of a space with clarity and intention, while also allowing others to move through it at their pace?
Do you know how to cultivate an environment where people connect, engage, and feel nourished by the group from day one?
Do you know how to predict when something hard will come up, and what subtle moves to do to prevent issues before they ever come up?
Basically… Do you know how to Facilitate the F*ck Out of it?
As a leader, it is your responsibility and privilege to create this kind of next level, authentic & safe space that leave your clients raving about the experience they have with you. I’m here to show you how.
I know a lot of amazing leaders, and most think they know what it means to facilitate as they run their business and interact with their peers, clients, coaches, and colleagues.
And yet, I watch them while they struggle with…
Programs and groups with lower engagement, connection, and community than imagined.
Ruptures that blindside them, wondering where things went wrong and scrambling to make things better.
Clients who want the leader at their beck and call, hand holding them every step of the way.
Needing to find new leads and clients, as people don’t refer or re-enroll…
Sound familiar?
We don’t know what we don’t know.
It can be easy to think that you’ve already got a topic like this checked off of your “personal development” to do list.
I’m inviting you to think again.
Facilitation is a nuanced and complex craft.
It’s like weaving a blanket. It's so much more than just picking out colors, finding a pattern, or sitting there doing the work - it's an art form. A good facilitator can create a gorgeous piece that takes your breath away and leaves you wondering, “How did they do that, and how do I get more?”
But when someone isn't paying attention, or is unaware of the potential missteps, small mistakes and flaws begin to happen. A single one might go unnoticed, but over time, it adds up and becomes an amateur-looking, messy AF blanket - one that doesn't keep you warm, doesn't feel comfortable, and doesn’t impress anyone. The type of blanket you might use if you HAVE to, but then would hide in the closet so nobody else sees it.
You don’t want that kind of blanket.
And you sure don’t want to be that kind of blanket weaver.
Learning to Facilitate the F*ck Out of It is like learning how to become an expert weaver of the finest art.
By learning the ins and outs of expert facilitation, you will become dextrous and responsive in your craft, so you can create containers and experiences that will leave your clients, team and colleagues raving.
Good facilitation is the puzzle you piece together.
It’s the ability to have an overarching view, knowing all the pieces of what’s involved.
It’s predicting any problems that might come up.
It’s both what you say AND what you don’t say.
It’s understanding emotional arcs.
It’s knowing what you want through every step of the process.
It’s creating for what you want, rather than what you don’t.
It’s solving for problems before they happen.
It’s understanding emotional arcs.
And then, it’s holding all of this and allowing people to flow through it with ease.
If you’re over containers not going as planned
If you’re terrified of ruptures happening
If you’re constantly going back to edit
If you wish you had done something differently
If you don’t know how the journey will go for your clients
If you feel the need to perform or react quickly and then regret what you did or said...
If you’re only facilitating as a response…
You’re not facilitating,
You’re reacting.
Reactionary facilitation is costing you money, time, huge emotional upheavals, and interpersonal relationships.
You don’t have to wait until you have a mess on your hands, or a container which feels totally out of your control.
There’s a better way…
Before it even happens, you have a chance to facilitate, long before it becomes an issue.
Instead of crossing your fingers and hoping for the best (and scrambling to deal with it when sh*t hits the fan), you can learn how to set and steer a container to be exactly what you desire.
Facilitate your life & business to go the way you planned…
Do you ever have moments when you wonder, what just happened? Where did my evening go? How did that go so f*cking wrong?
Instead of winging it from one moment to the next - what if you had facilitated for that?
Facilitation is what allows you to curate days that unfold according to your desired intention.
When you know what you want, and know how to facilitate for it, it keeps your nervous system more regulated and grounded. And so of course, it fills your life with more enjoyable experiences.
And when you facilitate well in any leadership position, it will naturally bring people in and keep them around without you having to do anything extra.
Doesn’t that sound good?
Good facilitation is not a bonus or extra, it’s a necessity. Upleveling your facilitation skills is the secret to unlocking your next level of leadership.
When you facilitate for what you want, rather than for what you don’t want, you open the space to positive experience, and avoid limiting rules.
The best facilitation takes place behind the scenes, quietly, subtly, leading people to where you want them to go.
Great facilitators become the leaders who inspire their community, who create a sense of ease and safety, and who are remembered for that.
Facilitate the F*ck Out of It
A 14 week program to learn how to expertly set and steer your containers.
August 8th to November 21st (with 2 integration weeks - September 5th and October 10th)
Develop consistency across your performance and spaces, so that you create the flow and vibe that you actually want in any space, in any group, in any experience.
Are you actually creating the life changing experiences that you want to have, not just for your clients but for yourself?
Do your people rave about the space you hold, coming back again and again, and referring you to others?
Do people know exactly what they’re going to get when they join your spaces and then receive that?
Are you caretaking your clients and taking on responsibilities that aren’t yours?
Do you constantly worry you’re not giving enough value, and find yourself lowering prices or adding more and more to your offers, all the while feeling like it’s never enough and worrying that people aren’t getting what they paid for?
Do you feel deeply confident in the space you hold, the transformation you offer and your ability to steer you container?
Are ruptures infrequent and easily repairable when they do happen?
If you’re unsure about any of the above…
Then this program is for you.
How This Program Works
This program is intended to help you refine your awareness of the subtle nuances of facilitation from every angle.
14 weeks of teaching and group coaching calls (7 each), supported with journal prompts & additional bonus materials
A slack channel for community support, witnessing and celebrations
Taught by a former licensed clinical counselor with extensive trauma work experience + leadership, communication, and trauma resolution training (me!)
Running August 8th to November 21st, with two integration weeks off - Labor Day (September 5th ) and October 10th
This course is not about telling you all the ways you might be fucking up, but about teaching you how to make your containers safer, more consistent and more transformational through expert facilitation.
It’s time to choose to become a better facilitator not just for your client, but for you.
We can always do better.
Let’s do better together.
I’m Jen, and I’m an Emotional Mastery Coach
As a high school teacher in gang-centered areas, as a social worker and clinical counsellor for chronically addicted homeless adults, as an event manager in huge arenas, and as a facilitator and coach who has worked in over a hundred in person and online containers, I have facilitated spaces for a wide and diverse variety of humans, in more settings than most people can imagine.
What I observed and realized during all these times – and now see it everywhere in business – is that facilitation is the key to a successfully held space… but not enough tools are taught to help people understand the subtle nuances of facilitation, and how to put them all together.
This results in good people who want to offer exceptional experiences and transformation to their clients, needing to respond reactively when something happens, rather than planning for it from the beginning. It results in ruptures that are messy and catastrophic, rather than easy to move through.
I am here to equip you with the knowledge and skills you need to take your facilitation to the next level.
My greatest passion is supporting good hearted people in becoming better leaders. I know you want to help. Let’s make sure that what you’re doing on all levels supports that desire.
Facilitate the F*ck Out of It
Learn to expertly set and steer containers that begin, progress & end exactly how you want, and solve for rupture before it ever happens.
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$975 in full or 3, 6, and 10 month payment plans available
Pay-In-Full
$975
3-Month Plan
$337.50 / month
6-Month Plan
$175 / month
10-Month Plan
$112.50 / month
Frequently Asked Questions…
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There will be a live call with Jen every week. One week will be a teaching module, at the end of which there may be time to ask Jen a few questions. The second week will be a full coaching call with Jen, where you will be able to bring your questions. This pattern will repeat for the duration of the course.
The slack channel is intended for community, and will not be a place to be coached by Jen. -
The program will run from August 8th to November 21st, with 2 weeks off for integration - September 5th and October 10th.
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You will have lifetime access to the course, so you will be able to come back, repeat modules or the whole thing as you desire.
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Refunds are not offered. There are rare circumstances where something is just not a good fit, or extreme life events happen, and in those times contracts can sometimes be ended early, at my discretion.
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Let’s talk. I am happy to answer any questions, talk about your specific circumstances, discuss any concerns that might be coming up, and help you discern if this program is a good fit for you.